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Tip of the Week: My Next Incarnation of the Candy Bar!


The popularity of candy bars has every bride asking for apothecary jars filled with miniature snicker bars and color-coordinated jelly bellies.  I empathize with bride’s enthusiasm as I designed my first candy bar with the help of Dylan’s Candy Bar at Nas and Kelis’ 2005 nuptials.  Lauren Dylan created custom chocolate molds of music inspired that included musical notes, miniature microphones and CD’s.  In addition, she brought in white chocolate and milk chocolate fountains along with a few classic childhood favorites consisting of milk chocolate and almond candy bars, chocolate kisses and yes personalized M&M’s.  As I’ve watched this trend grow in popularity and become more conventional, I have been eagerly anticipating its next incarnation.

Laduree Bar - Paris, France

My Design Coordinator Tiffany Pompey and I have been hard at work designing an upcoming French inspired party brainstorming for hours on end for ideas to restore glamour, elegance and sophistication to the concept of a designated dessert space.  My web browsing led me to Ladurée – the French Chocolatier and creator of the original Macaroon.  Little did I know that my travels last year would take me to Paris Fashion Week and subsequently the opportunity to experience what the French already know – dessert is as important as the main entrée and deserves to be treated as such.

I snuck away one afternoon to Ladurée on Champs-Elysees to try and understand the French’s adoration of this famous dessert boutique.  A few hours at the uber-fabulous bar at Ladurée left me with more than enough inspiration for my upcoming dessert installation.  The great thing about my time at Ladurée and the experience that inspired me is that it showed me a perspective that I had not previously been aware of.  It peaked a thought process that I could not discover on my own.  My visit to Ladurée was not the answer to my design dilemma, as I would never duplicate something that another artist has already conceived.  However, it proved what I already suspected to be true – dessert is a time-honored tradition that deserves to be savored beautifully and fabulously…something great is percolating and will come to life because of my brief time spent in Paris sipping champagne and savoring every bite of a Key Lime Macaroon tart.

So how will you re-design your next incarnation of the candy bar?

Keep spreading the love,

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Best Moments of 2011!


This year has passed faster than any other year in my career.  Maybe it was because I traveled more this year than any previous years or maybe it was because I finally reached the goal of hosting my own show?  I’m not sure but I’m absolutely certain that I worked harder this year with more focus and tenacity than ever before.  I once believed that success meant conquering some far off goal or arriving at a magical destination.  However, this year has taught me that success lies only in the journey of living my dreams and what a journey it has been.  From the very early morning call times to the hysterical crying spells I experienced some morning while riding to the set of I Do Over to traveling the world with my husband and daughter because I begged them to experience every moment with me…this is called enjoying the journey.  The time has come for me to review the goals I set for last year and identify new goals for the coming year but it would be blasphemous not to acknowledge all the good works that God has completed in my life and my immense gratitude.  So as this year ends, I share with you my most memorable moments of 2011 with hopes that you may catch a glimpse of yourself inside my journey because I believe that we are all more alike than not -different paths but all taking the same ride!

I started this year in pre-production on I Do Over and proved that I was ready and able o host my own show.  As the Host, Designer and Executive Producer it was far more work than I ever imagined but what a great feeling it was waking up every morning knowing that I was living my dreams!

My husband and I officially formed our production company, Underwood Entertainment and proudly watched the credits roll after each episode of I Do Over knowing that this would be a new chapter in my career!

I have never produced very many weddings each year because it always felt impossible to do it with my limited amount of available time.  Well with the help of our wedding team, we were able to design and produce six weddings all with a mere five days of design and planning.  It is amazing how much we can do, when life does not provide a way of escape!

After we wrapped I Do Over, I hosted a premiere and advance screening in Atlanta with the help of my friend Stacie Francombe and an amazing group of wedding professionals.  The best part was celebrating with my wedding team of Cece Counts, Leo Eley, Riann Valentine, D. Micah Lindsey, Tiffany Pompey and Stephanie Scribner!

WEtv participates in the Essence Music Festival every year but this year I was able to design the space, appear as talent to promote I Do Over and Host a segment called Men of Love where I talked with African American R&B singers and actors about our favorite topic ladies – LOVE!

I carved out some time in my schedule to attend Bridal Market in NYC.  It was great getting an advance look of designer interpretations of love and to give my new bride Evelyn Lozada a sneak peek of the newest bridal styles as she started thinking about her wedding day look!

Following a last minute invitation from a friend, I jetted off to Paris for Fashion Week and returned with a fresh perspective and more inspiration than I have been able to find here in the US in the last few years!

I completed over a dozen speaking engagements and proved that I have a voice and given the opportunity I will inspire, uplift and encourage people to step outside of tradition and playing it safe…and live their dreams!

I was re-acquainted with several media outlets that have supported me over the years and thanks to I Do Over, I was introduced to a plethora of new outlets.  I also learned just how much power some blogs have in entertainment!

Most importantly, I was able to spend so much time with my family.  My husband and daughter Riann (even though she is all grown up) are my strength and place of refuge and the ones that make ‘the struggle’ make sense.  Along the way, we adopted Leo Eley and Tiffany Pompey into both my business and our families!

So once again looking back gives me great hope for tomorrow.  Hosting a positive reality show that offered hope and second chances was not easy in a climate where viewers vote for “Controversial TV’ with their remotes.  This experience showed me that I am even stronger than I knew.  The future is bright because I know that if I am willing to put my dreams in the hands of the dream maker then I know He (God) will only continue to do exceedingly and abundantly above all that I can hope or think.

Join the Diann Valentine family and share some of your accomplishments of 2011!

Until next year,


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Mike Colon Shares More Than Pure Talent on I Do Over!


I first met Mike Colon when he photographed Usher’s wedding for me a few years ago.  After reaching out to the ‘one and only’ Joe Buissink and discovering his unavailability, he told me that Mike was at the top of his recommendation list and that was good enough for me.  I confirmed Mike at about 2:30am on the morning of the wedding with instructions to make a 6:30am flight in order to arrive on time.  After a hectic morning, he arrived calm, cool, reassuring and ready to go to work.  However, my lasting memories are the spirit of the man that showed up to shoot this critically important client.  Now with years of friendship under our belt, I am still in awe and impressed with his inner man.  I know that his personal conviction and acknowledgement of his enormous responsibility will never allow him to show up in the wrong state of mind.  You see, his gifts and his calling outweighs whatever may be in disarray in his private world.  Mike Colon wears his heart on his sleeve and shoots from the soul – a quality that is admirable but also scarce.  Mike shot 4 of the 6 episodes of I Do Over and blessed our couples with incredible memories.  With this year coming to an end, I’ve finally been able to slow down a bit and had a chance to chat with Mike to discuss some of the qualities that can only be found in a person whose life is called for greatness!

This is still my favorite image of Usher and Tameka.  The love that Mike captured in this moment cannot be denied!

DV: What was the most memorable experience of working with our couples on I Do Over?

Mike: I loved the idea that I was documenting memories that would wash away all of the disappointment and devastation that each couple experienced with their first wedding.  I too believe that everyone deserves a second chance and it was an honor to be placed in the process of redemption that these couples experienced.

The best shots are the ones that couples never see coming!

DV: Reality TV has created so many television opportunities for vendors but I am a firm believer that every opportunity is not a good opportunity.  Why did you accept the call from I Do Over?

Mike: When I realized the concept of the show I knew I had to be a part of it!  The fact that we would be working to replace ruined wedding memories for couples with new and beautiful memories made me so excited to be shooting these weddings.  Not to mention, anything Diann Valentine is involved with is a no-brainer for me!

The love captured in this image shines through all the fun they are enjoying on this Ferris wheel!

DV: There is so much more to creating an artistic photograph than just point, focus and shoot.  When I look at your work, I’m convinced that you bring your soul with you on a job.  So tell us, what inspires you the most?

Mike: Thank you Diann!  I always pour my soul into every opportunity to document a moment in time.  I’m inspired by the love that is shared between a bride and groom.  It is so lovely to watch two people make the greatest commitment in their lives and I’m humbled and lucky to be chosen to capture it all.  When I’m at a wedding, I work hard to focus, clear my head and stay clear of any distractions that may cause me to miss a moment that can never be re-created.  I’m so blessed to have such a meaningful career where my life’s work is appreciated and treasured for generations.

This woman’s eyes…says it all!

DV: We saw some pretty devastating disasters while shooting I DO Over.  What do you suggest a bride can do to avoid her own photography disaster?

Mike: Hiring an expert photographer who specializes in weddings will significantly decrease the possibility of any photographic disasters.  Even more importantly, brides should be certain they are communicating their desires and expressing their expectations, goals, and schedule with their photographer before the wedding day.  Every photographer should conduct a pre-wedding interview with the bride and groom to thoroughly discuss everything from lighting and timing of ceremony to which photos are most important to the couple.  Photo expectations forced on the couple by their parents could also pose significant problems and create unnecessary stress on the wedding day.  Parents should be brought into the conversation during the planning stages if necessary in order to get everyone on the same page.  Planning and communicating with your photographer before the wedding day will practically eliminate your chances of any photography pitfalls on your wedding day.

This image shows how much trust they had in Mike Colon!

DV: If you could shoot a photo shoot with 5 people – dead or alive – who would it be and why?

Mike: Easy… my wife and four kids because they are so beautiful and they stop my heart every time I see them!  I do photo-shoots with them all the time, but I can never get enough!

Love is expressed in so many simple ways…nothing beats hand holding!

DV: Love has always been my biggest source of inspiration for expressing myself creatively, as a family man – what does love do for you?

Mike: Love is what got me hooked on shooting weddings.  I’ve photographed many people, places, and things, but nothing compares to photographing people who are in love.  Everything good comes from love.  God is love.

Love is simple and this image shows everything that she really wants!

DV: What’s next for Mike Colón?

Mike: After a very busy year, I am most looking forward to celebrating the holidays with my family.  Next year brings many new opportunities to educate and share my gifts with our industry through my exclusive workshops, photographing a big celebrity wedding and taking advantage of each new day to be a better photographer, a better professional and a better man!

For more information and to check out some of Mike Colon’s gift, please visit his website at www.mikecolon.com!

So do tell – what is your favorite image that Mike Colon captured?  Please join the Diann Valentine family and share it with us all!

Keep spreading the love,


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An Imperfect Perfect Heart!


Tracy and Jason Carstensen shared such a precious love story.  Since a near death disaster ruined their first wedding, these two knew immediately into their marriage just how important it was to love each other to the fullest with every day that they shared together.  Their genuine love for each other made me want to work so much harder to ensure that their ‘Do Over’ was everything they dreamed and so much more.  They were passionate and emotional and inspired me to realize that ‘today’ is all we have.  I learned so much from them and the greatest lesson was that we all have imperfect hearts but our blessings lie in our ability to find the imperfect perfect heart that loves us just as much as we love them!

Here are a few of my favorite moments from this week’s season finale episode that you may have missed:

Although this was our last week of shooting it was crazy.  12 wardrobe changes, 7 hair changes, tons of voices over plus I had to fit in the premiere of Braxton Family Values…whew!

We gave Tracy and Jason a commemorative invitation from my Pure Dazzle Suite in the Diann Valentine Wedding Stationery Collection!

I just love my wedding day load-in look this week and probably because my daughter Riann Valentine took me shopping and styled me in this vintage Mark Jacobs jacket, American Apparel tights and Gucci boots!

Since I insisted on hosting the wedding and reception on the rooftop at The LA Athletic Club, I had to make sure we had cashmere wraps for all of the ladies as they arrived!

Photo by Gavin Wade

D. Micah Lindsey took such good care of our brides and their families on wedding day!

Photo by Gavin Wade

I just love a confident man…and I was thankful that Jason didn’t need my help to get his swagger back!

Photo by Gavin Wade

I couldn’t wait to present Tracy with this custom brooch bouquet from Fantasy Floral Designs…simply gorgeous!

Photo by Gavin Wade

Tracy Carstensen is so stunning inside and out…and especially in this custom gown from R-Mine Bridal!

Photo by Gavin Wade

…I had to give you one last look at that gorgeous gown from behind!

Photo by Gavin Wade

This imperfect heart was the perfect gate for Tracey to enter into the ceremony!

Photo by Gavin Wade

Tracey and Jason’s ceremony was set with all modern lounge furnishings from Rriveworks!

Photo by Gavin Wade

My personal family friend Pastor Lafayette Dorsey conducted a beautiful Christian ceremony!

Photo by Gavin Wade

I cried the most during Tracy and Jason’s ceremony…I guess I couldn’t stop thinking about their disaster and how she thought she had lost him.  I’m so glad I’m not jaded from L-O-V-E!

Photo by Gavin Wade

I love how Jason rested his head on Tracy’s lap after the ceremony…right where it belongs!

Photo by Gavin Wade

We used these custom bars from Rrivreworks to separate the ceremony from the reception so we could create two reveals!

Dodie Sy from Brassavola’s created so many eclectic floral centerpieces all over the rooftop using thousands of flowers from our friends at 1-800-FLOWERS!

Photo by Gavin Wade

A gorgeous guest dining table on the rooftop!

Photo by Gavin Wade

The L-O-V-E table turned into the crepe station for Tracy and Jason’s reception!

Photo by Gavin Wade

We also set-up a station for guests to complete ‘Rainy Day’ cards from the Pure Dazzle suite in the Diann Valentine Wedding Stationery Collection!

After completing the ‘Rainy Day’ cards, guests placed them in this silver engraved keepsake box for Tracy and Jason to take home!

Photo by Gavin Wade

I was so happy that my daughter Riann Valentine’s friend Lexy Panterra was able to sing for Tracy and Jason’s first dance!

Photo by Gavin Wade

The ceremony platform was moved and flipped into the cake platform adorned with a custom tablecloth from Wildflower Linens for the reception!

Photo by Gavin Wade

Tracy and Jason’s sweetheart table was intimated placed underneath a black and white canopy from Rrivreworks!

Photo by Gavin Wade

We used this custom metallic grape dance floor from Barker Dance Floors!

Photo by Gavin Wade

One overall look of the Carstensen’s rooftop wedding reception that was lit to perfection by Amber Event Production!

Photo by Gavin Wade

The ‘I Do Over’ crew just after our Executive Producer Krysia Plonka yelled “That’s a wrap”!

My production company Underwood Entertainment was one of the producers of I Do Over and I was so proud every week watching the credits roll!

This has been a whirlwind of a ride and I am finally at a place in my life where I can say that I truly enjoyed every minute of it.  Thank you all for joining me as I embarked in the latest chapter of the ‘Diann Valentine saga.  I use to think that success was some sought after goal or a destination that I would reach after years and years of hard work and struggle.  My maturity has taught me that success can only be found in the journey…and what a journey it has been!

…to be continued!

So I’m dying to know- what was your favorite part of Season I of I Do Over?  Please join the Diann Valentine family and share it with us all!

God bless you and keep spreading the love,


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Rrivreworks Aides in An Amazing Transformation on I Do Over!


Rrivre Davies and I have been friends and colleagues for years.  We have worked hand in hand on events both in Southern California and around the world.  One of the qualities that keeps me coming back – other than his expansive inventory of décor and furnishings is his attitude.  He is pleasant, gracious, humble and a joy to work with.  In our industry, talent seems to lead the reputation of the leaders in our industry but I prefer to allow the inner man to lead my choice in collaborations and Rrivre remains at the top of my list.  For the Carstensen’s episode, I needed lots of great, clean, modern furnishings as well as a special element that would help to remind them of the special heart that brought them together and I knew that only Rrive had just what I needed.  With the Carstensen’s episode airing this Sunday night, I sat down with Rrivre to dig a little deeper and to give you all a glimpse of the man behind some of the biggest Hollywood mega-weddings!

...meet Rrivre Davies!

DV: What was your most memorable experience of working on I Do Over?

Rrivre: I got to see Diann without makeup!  She is just as stunning first thing in the morning as she is after she is all dolled up.

DV: Reality TV has created so many opportunities for vendors and you have deservedly so become the ‘go to guy’ for the Kardashian family but I am a firm believer that every opportunity is not a good opportunity.  Why did you accept the call from I Do Over?

Rrivre: For me, it didn’t matter that this particular event was for TV.  Having collaborated with you for years, I knew the experience would be the same loving creative process with the ultimate goal of crafting a wedding that would overwhelm the Bride with joy, beauty, and memories of a magical celebration of their love.  Unlike the terrifying experience that overtook first wedding, these two were so deserving of another chance at the perfect celebration.  Knowing that, how could I have said “no” to you?

Photo by Dan Scott

DV: I am known to push my vendors hard to dig deeper for another level of creative expression and your custom fabricated work shows that you believe the same thing.  Where do you find your inspiration for newly fabricated items in your inventory?

Rrivre: There is always a battle between form and function.  I consciously work to remove myself from my own cultural confines and explore the “what ifs” of design, that is, how can I amalgamate my imagination with an established aesthetic to build something new.  I enjoy exploring architecture from every era, and the development of world cultures.  Inspiration comes to me in many forms: old movies, history books, my own travels throughout the world.   With nearly unlimited options in technique and materials for construction of custom furnishings there are today, it really helps to accelerate the process.  We can bring an idea to life in the blink of an eye.  For example, the cocktail hour furnishings we fabricated for Kim Kardashian’s wedding came from an early 20th century chair I found at a swap meet – we were able to capture the spirit of that chair and create an entire collection of French garden seating and tables in under a week.

Photo by Michael Simon

DV: We saw some pretty devastating disasters on I Do Over.  What tips do you have for brides that can help them avoid their own design disasters?

Rrivre: Once you have selected a location, set a realistic budget for the size of the space that needs decor.  If the budget leans more on the small side, avoid trying to transform the space into a particular theme.  Incorporate your favorite colors that do not fight the surroundings.   For inspiration, bridal magazines, websites and TV shows are great resources, but so are photos from a recent vacation, movies, music – anything that brings you happiness can be translated into a cohesive look.  (Well, almost anything)   If you can, incorporate a lounge area near the dance floor or the bar so that as the evening wears on and the party gets smaller, your guests will have a place to congregate.  Such furniture can be rented from a shop like Rrivre Works or borrowed from the hotel lobby!  Just, be sure to ask first.   Most importantly, if you plan to decorate your wedding on your own, enlist a team to help you in the days leading up to the celebration.  You won’t have time to make flower arrangements on your special day, so it’s important to feel that you are in good hands and you can trust your team of designers, planners, florists, caterers etc.  Although they cannot prevent a tropical storm or medical emergency, your team can help you avoid disasters that are preventable, and might actually help salvage such events from total meltdown.  The more homework you and your team do in advance such as developing a timeline and establishing some contingencies in the event of bad weather, the more you will be able to relax.  Your big day will be filled with excited and lots of emotion but you will be at ease knowing you have the support you need to keep the unforeseen surprises to a minimum.

Photo by J. Parker

DV: My natural aesthetic has always been influenced by Tom Ford because I love how he infuses sexy undertones in everything that he does.  Who is your design muse?

Rrivre: I would have to credit all of the nameless and unknown designers that came before me.  Not one person specifically, but all of the innovators and creators in our history that made our world such an amazing place full of varied cultures and styles, they blow my mind.  Oh yeah, and Mom who has an amazing sense of style and design.

Photo by Marianne Lozano

DV: If you could design a party for any 5 women – dead or alive – who would they be and why?

  • My mother, of course, because she deserves it and has taught me so much….. and has worked many of my events – for free!
  • Better Midler, because she is so original, so real, so free.
  • Mother Teresa, because… who wouldn’t want to see a Saint a little tipsy? No seriously, she gave so much to so many and it would be great to celebrate her.
  • Coretta Scott King, because she was a great woman behind her great man and in her own right.  I would imagine she would be an amazing conversationalist and full of love.
  • Queen Victoria!  Talk about a woman’s libber who changed the world.  I just know she would be fascinating and INTENSE.

Photo by Aaron Delesie

DV: What’s next for Rrivre Works?

Rrivre: We are opening a photo studio in conjunction with my other company, American Gentleman Magazine.  There are a plethora of great studios in Los Angeles, but none with a furniture and prop house attached!  We are also hard at work on a complete overhaul of our website, completing our expansion of our warehouse to 45,000 sq. ft. and looking into opening offices in other American cities.  And there are some things I cannot talk about just yet, so you’ll have to stay tuned.

For more information on Rrivreworks or to have a glimpse at some of their amazing inventory and environments, click here!

And of course, don’t forget to tune into the season finale of I Do Over on Sunday, December 18th at 10E|9C on WEtv to see how Rrivre helps us transform a space that offers one of the best views in all of Los Angeles!

So do tell – what is your favorite piece in the Rrivreworks inventory?  Please join the Diann Valentine family and share it with us all!

Keep spreading the love,

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